Contents:
- Medical Video: 10 Signs Your Partner Is Selfish In Bed
- What is selfish?
- The characteristics of a selfish partner in bed
- 1. Your partner is not concerned with your sexual satisfaction
- 2. Don't want to do the same thing
- 3. You have never been kissed during sex
- 4. Rarely do romantic things
- 5. Reluctant to have sex positions that satisfy a partner
Medical Video: 10 Signs Your Partner Is Selfish In Bed
One of the characteristics of a selfish partner is to be self-interested in matters of beds. Many feel the dilemma between inner stress, sexual desire and affection that exists. But calm down first, to further solidify your beliefs and heart about whether your lover is a selfish couple or not about sex, it's good to see the characteristics below.
What is selfish?
According to Dr. Gracie Landes, a sex therapist in New York, is selfish in a situation where someone does not show little attention to others and does not want to know what other people need or want.
In matters of beds, it is only natural that occasionally everyone feels tired, and immediately sleeps after reaching orgasm. But, if this often happens, chances are that your partner has little understanding and sympathy for you, or more or less he is indeed one of the characteristics of a selfish partner.
The characteristics of a selfish partner in bed
1. Your partner is not concerned with your sexual satisfaction
If it concerns the affairs of the bed, you should both be equally satisfied. But if a person is selfish, he will only seek satisfaction and sexual pleasure on his own. Then, how is your satisfaction? According to him it is not important, the important thing is that sex has been done to resolve his desires.
2. Don't want to do the same thing
When your partner often asks for a massage or masturbation assistance but never does the same to you, it could be a sign of being selfish. Your partner will try to find the reason why he can't do it. Finally, you can only fulfill the request without ever having your request fulfilled.
3. You have never been kissed during sex
Who has never been kissed when having sex? Kissing during sex can create intimacy connected to the level of ultimate enjoyment. If your partner rarely does that, even refusing when you try to kiss him, you can be sure that your partner does not care about intimacy between you two.
4. Rarely do romantic things
Predictably, one of the characteristics of a selfish partner for sex is not romantic. In addition to the absence of intimate kisses, as explained above, he also will not attempt to make physical or emotional connections with you. One example of a romantic thing that your partner can do for example, by intimate massage, giving praise, stroking his hair, kissing your neck on your own initiative.
5. Reluctant to have sex positions that satisfy a partner
If your partner prefers a sex position where he doesn't have to bother, or wants to be in a safe position so he can orgasm quickly, your partner might be selfish in bed. That is a clear sign, if indeed he is selfish and only wants you to try to satisfy him.
