All about Dominant-Submissive Sexual Relations

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What is the dominant-submissive relationship?
Dominant-submissive in sexual relations
Many people mistakenly perceive dominant-submissiveness in sexual relations
What if you and your partner want to have a relationship like this but still be safe?

Medical Video: Dominance & Submission Basics PART 1 of 6 - The Romantic BDSM Relationship

Are you the dominant type of intercourse? Or even you who are more obedient? If you belong to one, it means that your relationship can be called a dominant-submissive relationship.

What is the dominant-submissive relationship?

Dominant-submissive can occur in various aspects of the relationship. In essence, one party becomes dominant and has full power in deciding something, then one other party allows and accepts what has been decided. The party that becomes submissive does leave and position itself on the side who will obey all the words of the dominant person, and vice versa. But actually the dominant-submissive relationship is a common relationship for each pair.

Not only in a relationship, if you read novels or watch films about romance, at least there are those who are weak parties - which are usually played by women, and are helped by those who have more power - which are usually played by men. Sometimes, parties who become dominant will not only be decisive in a relationship, but still have a submissive side in themselves.

Dominant-submissive in sexual relations

Dominant-submissive in intimate relationships is a common thing that happens to a partner. This is indeed closely related to the 'violence' that was done during the intimate relationship. Violence carried out varies, can be either verbal or non-verbal violence. Violence that occurs when intimate relationships, sometimes even makes the relationship more passionate and attractive. If you ever watch a movie Fifth Shades of Gray, it is one of the dominant-submissive examples in intimate relationships, in the film they use violence to achieve more enjoyment, where men hold dominant roles and women become submissive.

Not all dominant parties are cruel and rude. Instead, he thinks about what his partner (in this case the submissive party) likes, and does not do things that can endanger his partner. This is done to the extent of achieving each other's pleasures. A psychology journal from The American Psychiatric Association (APA), states that domination is usually carried out by men and this is not without reason. It could be that the man had experienced experiences related to 'violence' in intercourse before. While women usually only follow what men do to him and over time begin to enjoy it.

Many people mistakenly perceive dominant-submissiveness in sexual relations

Dominant-submissive intimate relationships are often considered to lead to violence, danger, and even persecution. But actually this is one of the common emotional expressions that can happen to anyone and does not cause crime, because it has been agreed upon by both parties in a couple. Dominant-submissive intimate relationships are not only about pain, but how a submissive and dominant blend which then produces a more intense sensation in intimate relationships and increases pleasure. In fact, intimate relationships like this can increase the bond and affection of the couple. A professor of psychiatry at Emory University in Atlanta said that an increasingly intimate relationship can trigger the hormone dopamine and oxytocin, which can make the body relax, calm, and happy.

What if you and your partner want to have a relationship like this but still be safe?

Before starting an intimate relationship, you should tell your partner whether you or he is ready to make this connection. Do not hesitate if you or your partner want to stop doing it or want to do it in another way, because good communication is also a factor that affects pleasure in intimate relationships. If you have agreed, you or your partner can start by using a soft tool to increase each other's passion. Slip naughty words that can also increase the intensity of intimate relationships and then get ready to feel a different intimate relationship experience than before.

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