Contents:
- Medical Video: We need to change how we bury the dead
- Research says, women prefer men who sell expensive
- Conversely, men are attracted to friendly women
- Depending on the situation, an expensive selling attitude doesn't always work
- An expensive selling attitude can signal the fear of starting a relationship
Medical Video: We need to change how we bury the dead
He said, the PDKT period aka a more beautiful approach than the courtship period. Many tricks are done by women and men to attract potential partners, one of them is by way of expensive selling. Yes, you might also do this method in order to attract the heart of the dream. The reason is, many believe that men or women who "sell expensive" are even more attractive.
However, it turns out that men and women are not the same, some are more interested in potential partners who sell expensive and some who don't. So, which one prefers to sell expensive when the PDKT period?
Research says, women prefer men who sell expensive
A research it was only conducted on 51 women and 50 men from Central Israel University. This study was conducted on single men and women aged 19-31 years.
The study examined the participants who followed chat dating online. From the study it was known that women were more interested and respond to men who were not so friendly.
According to the women who took part in the study, foreign men who were seen selling expensive actually attracted hearts, rather than men who gave excessive responses.
Men who give excessive responses and are too friendly when they are at the beginning of the introduction, are actually considered to have bad intentions, are merely looking for attention, manipulative, and not serious in relating.
Therefore, many women prefer men who are a little stiff when they first meet and during PDKT. Even in this study it is known that the nature of men who sell expensive can arouse women's passion.
Conversely, men are attracted to friendly women
Well, unlike women, men actually like women who are friendly and open when at the beginning of their introduction. Women who sell expensive and 'tug-of-war' relationships are considered not serious and not attractive to the man.
This is evidenced in a survey conducted on men who use the application dating online.
As many as 80 percent of the men who participated admitted that they preferred women who were open, friendly and caring since they first met. These traits are some of the main criteria to proceed to more serious relationships.
Depending on the situation, an expensive selling attitude doesn't always work
A psychologist, revealed that the trick of selling expensive and tugging can sometimes be successful, depending on the conditions of each relationship.
Many studies have concluded that expensive selling attitude can succeed when you and your partner already have a commitment or at least there is little interest. Because, when you feel that you need each other, tugging tricks can be a spice in a relationship.
If you and your partner feel they need each other, then when someone is away, one will try to catch up and make the relationship get better again.
An expensive selling attitude can signal the fear of starting a relationship
According to psychologists from IDC Herzliya in Israel and the University of Rochester in New York, said that showing a pretentious attitude to selling expensive during the PDKT period did not always make the relationship end smoothly.
Some people use this expensive selling attitude to protect themselves from fear when it comes to starting relationships.Most of those who pretend to be expensive at the start of a relationship show that they are afraid of being hurt and failing during a relationship.
If indeed this is your reason for selling expensive, you should first reconcile with the fear you have and discuss this with your partner. That way, your partner will understand your condition and feelings at that time.
