Contents:
- Medical Video: Pornography Addiction in Marriage - The Art of Marriage
- Negative effects on husband's psychology if addicted to porn
- What should the wife do if the husband is addicted to watching bury movies?
- 1. Talk without confrontation
- 2. Look for reasons why the husband did it
- 3. Talk about the solution together
Medical Video: Pornography Addiction in Marriage - The Art of Marriage
Watching a porn movie with your partner is actually okay, but what if this pornographic film is used as a foreplay every time you want to have sex? What is the negative impact if your husband is addicted to watching porn?
Negative effects on husband's psychology if addicted to porn
Husbands who like watching porn, even though they are with a partner, still have a negative psychological impact. Basically, this blue film was made to stimulate sex, someone who witnessed it had "imagination friends" so that they could be aroused to have sexual relations.
Watching porn films can make someone become addicted, because this blue film is deliberately made 'perfect' so that those who witness it can be aroused. Especially for men, it will usually be easily aroused by visual or physical form.
If your husband is addicted to watching blue films, this of course needs to be changed. Because when husbands watch pornographic films, the meaning is the same as there are third parties as 'anglers', and this is certainly not good because you as a wife are only used as target objects.
Basically sexual relations between husband and wife must be done with a sense of comfort between the two. While if sexual relations have been controlled with pornographic films, third parties need to be as foreplay. Intimacy that builds up will actually be damaged.
Ideally sexual relations must have an emotional side that has a very important role, not just as satisfying desires. Porn films are not only able to "boycott" the intimacy of a husband but can also "boycott" sexual satisfaction.
It would be more fun if you and your husband can find variations of sex naturally, compared to watching porn. It's better to find out foreplay who are healthier and try their own new style. The habit of watching this blue film cannot disappear in one or two days, it needs a process to change it.
What should the wife do if the husband is addicted to watching bury movies?
1. Talk without confrontation
Be honest with him that you have seen a husband watch a blue film several times, or know he visited a porn site through his gadget, and explain how uncomfortable you feel about it. Don't blame what he did. You must communicate this carefully.
2. Look for reasons why the husband did it
Find out, ask your husband about what made him access pornography. Is it because your sexual life is both less challenging? Or is it just curiosity? Ask your husband to be honest how often he does it. And remember, don't judge or blame him.
3. Talk about the solution together
If your husband gives a clue that the root of the problem is your relationship that has begun to stretch lately, fix it together. However, if it turns out he has done it too often, and is honest about his addiction, it's good that you both look for someone who is an expert to deal with this.
