Contents:
- Medical Video: On Condom Failure
- Tell this reason to him when he refuses to use condoms
- 1. The importance of using condoms
- 2. Using a condom does not mean doubting your partner's health
- 3. Having sex with a condom will feel comfortable
- 4. Condoms will not be a barrier to stimulation from your partner
- 5. Effect of condoms on the performance of couples in bed
- 6. Choose the right condom size, so that sex feels good
- What if the couple is allergic to condoms?
Medical Video: On Condom Failure
Your partner refuses to use condoms during sexual intercourse? This is more often done by men. Usually the reason men are reluctant to use condoms because they feel uncomfortable and interfere with intimacy. While others, may feel mistrusted by the couple because they were told to use a condom. Then what if the couple refuses to use it? Here are some tips that can help you.
Tell this reason to him when he refuses to use condoms
Men refuse to use condoms during sex for various reasons. Most men find it difficult to get an erection when using a condom, feel less intimate with their partner, or can be painful because the condom is too small.
Sealin, men feel doubtful about their health or about their relationships, if the couple asks them to use a condom.
You need to show that everything that men think is not true. Using condoms during sex is important.
Here's how to deal with couples who refuse to use condoms by giving explanations based on the reasons.
1. The importance of using condoms
Having sex using a condom is the safest way to protect yourself and your partner from transmission of venereal diseases including HIV, and pregnancy. Even if you use birth control pills or other contraceptive methods, it is still recommended to use condoms.
2. Using a condom does not mean doubting your partner's health
Condoms are contraceptives that protect you from the risk of transmission of venereal disease. However, that does not mean you do not believe in a partner.
Venereal disease or genital infections often have no real symptoms. Just because you can't see a clear wound to the genitals, that doesn't mean you or your partner is free of venereal disease.
3. Having sex with a condom will feel comfortable
Sex with a condom can be comfortable and still fun. Condoms can add new sensations to sex. There are also condoms that make you and your partner more hot and exciting.
In addition, there are also condoms that can make your partner last longer. Or there are also condoms that are textured and have an aroma.
4. Condoms will not be a barrier to stimulation from your partner
If a condom makes you or your partner lose sensitivity, look for a condom brand that is made from very thin and can feel as if you hardly feel when you wear it.
Alternatively, you might want a condom to be textured so that the climax gets stronger.
5. Effect of condoms on the performance of couples in bed
Some people find it difficult to remain erect when using a condom. This often happens if your partner tries to use a condom when he is just about to have sex.
If this is your partner's concern, practice using a condom when not having sex. Learn to enjoy sex while using a condom.
Try masturbating with a condom to help you learn to stay erect and experience orgasm. In this way, you will feel more confident when you have sex.
6. Choose the right condom size, so that sex feels good
Kodom has a variety of shapes, sizes, flavors, textures, and ingredients, so it's likely that there is a condom that suits your needs for comfortable and pleasant sex. Choose the right condom but not too tight.
If the condom you are using is too small, look for a brand that is larger in size. Try one before you have sex to see how it feels.
What if the couple is allergic to condoms?
Allergies are not a good reason to have intercourse without a condom, because there are condoms that do not cause allergies.
A person who is allergic to condoms can react to:
- latex which is used as a condom material.
- chemicals used to produce condoms.
- spermicides added to most condoms. Spermicide is usually outside the condom, so the person who reacts is not the person who uses it but the partner.
If you or your partner is allergic to condoms, you can try non-latex condoms made of polyurethane or polyisoprene, which do not cause allergic reactions. You can also use condoms that do not contain spermicide.
