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- The benefits of having a fussy wife, according to the study
- Having a fussy wife, a husband's healthier life
- Even so, couples still have to be smart in controlling emotions
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Many think that having a household with a fussy wife is troublesome. Eits, wait a minute. As a husband, you should be grateful to have a talkative wife. Because the researchers found that having a fussy wife can make husbands live healthier lives. How can?
The benefits of having a fussy wife, according to the study
Reporting from Healthline, researchers use data from National Social Life, Health, and Aging Project to examine gender relations with health quality. This study involved 1,228 married couples (couples) who had been married for more than five years with respondents ranging in age from 57 to 85 years. Apparently, at the end of the study showed that there were 389 respondents who had diabetes.
Surprising facts from Dr. Hui Liu, a professor of sociology from Michigan State University, found that men who were less happy in their households tended to avoid diabetes. Even if you have diabetes, men will be better able to control it.
This is because the wives who like to nag tend to regulate healthier behaviors for their husbands and families. "Has the husband enough exercise?", "Do family members eat foods that contain high sugar?", "Has the husband eaten enough vegetables and fruit?", And a series of other questions that describe the wife's attention to her husband.
The results of this study do not apply otherwise. Wives will avoid the risk of diabetes if they do have a happy household. According to Dr. Hui Liu, this is because women may be more sensitive to the quality of their love relationships than men. If the household is good and happy, it will encourage women to lead a healthier lifestyle in the family.
Having a fussy wife, a husband's healthier life
According to Dr. Karen Ruskin, Syd.D., a marriage therapist and family from Sharon, Massachusetts, every nagging from his wife is not necessarily a sign of unhappiness. In fact, the wife's speech or scolding is proof of how much she cares for you. In addition, when a wife becomes talkative it can also be a sign of a sense of frustration that is felt when husbands are not cooperative with what they want.
For example, when a wife requests or repeats something repeatedly, husbands often catch her as a scolding so they immediately label their wives with the word 'fussy wife'. In fact, maybe this wife's words describe their way to communicate with you as their partner.
Take another example, for a husband with diabetes, a nagging wife will be better able to remind her husband to control blood sugar levels. This indicates that the wives are better monitoring their husbands' health. Luckily, your life and family are healthier.
Even so, couples still have to be smart in controlling emotions
Although wife's nagging can make a husband healthier, but that does not mean that wives can arbitrarily scold their husbands for no reason. Unjust nagging can be very disturbing, leading to emotional hostility and pressure. Of course, you have to be able to tell which scolding has a good purpose and which scolding is just to vent emotions.
For wives, try to convey your will in a softer way. If indeed you have to do with scolding, also convey your intentions and goals so as not to cause misunderstanding. Emphasize that what you do is only for the good and health of your husband and family.
Conversely, for husbands, invite your wife to have a good discussion. Don't rush to label 'fussy wife' before you know for sure the reason why your wife is nagging. Don't forget to thank your wife when you pay attention to your health, even though you are complaining.
