Contents:
- Medical Video: Teen Rebellion: Causes and Solutions - Dr. Suzy Ismail
- Various causes of rebellious teenagers based on age
- 1. Ages 9-13 years
- 2. Ages 13-15 years old
- 3. Ages 15-18 years
Medical Video: Teen Rebellion: Causes and Solutions - Dr. Suzy Ismail
The period in which adolescents rebel, is a natural process that many children go through to maturity. Not infrequently, this becomes a burden for parents who expect their children to be obedient and not act.
However, not all rebellions are the same cause. Different ages, different reasons why they rebelled. Check out reviews of why teenagers rebel, and what parents can do to overcome them.
Various causes of rebellious teenagers based on age
1. Ages 9-13 years
The early age at which rebellion adolescents usually begins when parents and adolescents are not in the same mind. For example, at the age of 9-13 years, your baby has begun to not want to be treated like a child again. But in fact, many parents treat children like toddlers, and don't realize that their children are growing up.
According to PsychologyToday, rebellion that focuses on self-identity as a problem, will conclude the child's feelings about what he wants. But unfortunately, at this very young age, they have not yet discovered and determined their identity. In the end, they rebelled because they wanted to be considered mature or "pretentious" to be mature at this time.
Then how should parents behave? First, there is a need for subtle communication to reduce all of these rebellions. Ask your child, is there anything you can help to understand what the child needs? How do children want to be treated? You can also consider how you will respond to a child's request.
Very much needed understanding and patience, to discuss and do questions and answers. You can also approach your way, according to the character of each baby.
2. Ages 13-15 years old
Ages 13-15 years old, are adolescents who are in junior high school. Most teenagers rebel, because they are "trying" to find their identity. Not infrequently, too, parents issue an attitude of opposition to the child's trial and error.
Child behavior that makes parents oppose for example is, when they break the rules in school, play more than learning, play with friends who are considered "not good" by parents, and much more.
Response and a good way to respond to children's behavior in age and this problem is to let them accept the consequences of their actions. Then, after the child receives the punishment or the consequences, it's time for you to give positive guidance. Don't blame, and talk more about positive input on the child.
3. Ages 15-18 years
Understanding of parents towards the development of the growth period of children in adolescence, is very necessary. The reason, some cases stated, some teenagers rebelled due to their early adolescence delayed. The point is, parents "force" their children to always think or behave as parents want, so that in the end they don't get the freedom of their ideas or behavior.
In addition, the cause of the feeling of rebellion arises because of the exploratory spirit of the child that you limit first, he can no longer dam. Not infrequently too, this teenage rebellion will be dramatic.
This is indeed surprising and frightening for parents, because of the unexpected rebellion. Unfortunately, the risk of a rebellious teenager's age will be very dangerous.
It is recommended, for parents to let children express freely (at a reasonable stage), while inserting commensurate responsibilities. If there is a quarrel between you and your child, keep giving empathy, do not make the child an enemy. At the end, you can provide direction and clear input about the decisions and risks that your child wants to take.
