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Research shows that cheating men have IQs that are more "squat" than men who faithfully live as closely as their partners. No, this ignorance is not judged by carelessness that has caught them when they make love with other women. They show their folly just by being unfaithful.
Why, what is the relationship between love loyalty and low IQ?
Why do men cheat?
Differences in chemical systems and genetics in the brain provide strong reasons why some husbands cheat more often than others. Research shows that in men who are fond of cheating, the sensation of excited mixed happy because not (or not) caught cheating actually further motivates them to do so. These men experience the urge of dopamine (a chemical in the brain that affects emotions, actions, and pleasure and pain) and adrenaline when engaging in less ethical behavior, such as infidelity.
But the reason for cheating a husband, or boyfriend, is not only that. Men are all practical beings. Their main motivation for engaging in a romantic relationship is to get sexual satisfaction. This is why one of the classic reasons for men having an affair is to get a better sex experience and orgasm than other women who are more attractive (or experienced) than their current partners.
Why do cheating men or husbands tend to have low IQs?
Satoshi Kanazawa, an evolutionary psychologist from the London School of Economics and Political Science, said that the more intelligent a man is, the less likely he is to cheat on his partner. This is because men who have a high IQ are more appreciative of the aspects of sexual exclusivity and monogamous relationships themselves, than those who like cheating.
Kanazawa theorizes that the relationship between male intelligence and his tendency to cheat has its roots in the development of human evolution. In prehistoric times, sex was only considered a purely biological need to produce as many offspring as possible. Monogamy in ancient times will not provide many benefits for the survival of the male offspring, because having a wife is enough one cannot ensure the head of the family to have children, if seen from the childbirth process the child is still quite left behind.
The ability to faithfully undergo a monogamous relationship was assessed by the research team as the cornerstone of modern human civilization which signifies that humans are more developed and smarter. Smart people will be more open to new ideas and thoughts. Smart men understand correctly that to preserve bloodlines and get sexual satisfaction no longer have to go through polygamy or look for other women, because the number of women and also the life expectancy of children is certainly increasing compared to during prehistoric times.
Boyfriends and cheating husbands are considered to have IQs that are more "squat" than other men because they are considered to fail to adapt to the evolution of modern humans. Because to be able to adapt to every development that exists, humans need qualified cognitive intelligence to enable them to be able to read all situations by thinking logically. If you are not a great thinker, you tend to do things without thinking and move on as quick as lightning.
When blinded by lust, sexual arousal makes you have less self control. Men are reported to show impulsive tendencies and greater willingness to make risky decisions, such as having an affair. This is what makes men "less intelligent" may tend to be more indifferent about the effects of damage that might arise from the affair so that they are able to put aside guilt.
Interestingly, according to Kanazawa's theory, the relationship between loyalty and intelligence quality does not apply to women. This is because Eve will always be expected to be loyal to one partner - even in the polygamy community.
Not all cheating husbands have low IQs
The research above, according to Marty Babits, social officer and author of The Power of the Middle Ground: A Couple's Guide to Renewing Your Relations, does not consider the value of a relationship rooted in the complexity of psychological problems that generally do not relate to one's level of intelligence.
In addition to the reasons for seeking sexual satisfaction, there are also many men who cheat on the grounds of childhood trauma related to neglect or rejection, and revenge has been hurt beforehand. Trauma makes them experience severe stress and anxiety to find closeness with a woman and feel loved by others. This is a manifestation of fears and problems of trust that are far more complicated than just the reason for "mainstream" cheating.
This study also tends to overestimate the situation, said Daniela Schreider, clinical psychologist and doses assistant at the Chicago School of Professional Psychology. According to him, many intelligent men who are also hobby cheating. Just look at John F. Kennedy, the US president who had an affair with his secretary or Tiger Woods who had an affair with fellow golf players.
Schreider continued, smarter men appear to have less affair (even though it might be the same), perhaps more based on the chance of being caught which is much smaller thanks to their intelligence which makes them more astute in playing the brain and reading any potential dangerous situations for themselves.
