Contents:
- Medical Video: WEDDING NIGHT TIPS AND ADVICE | Shamsa
- The first way to have sex
- What should be prepared?
- What can I expect from first time sex?
- Will the vagina bleed?
Medical Video: WEDDING NIGHT TIPS AND ADVICE | Shamsa
For those of you who are preparing themselves to have sex for the first time with your partner, feeling nervous may wrestle your mind. The reason is, even though it has been told by friends or watching pornographic videos, making love in real life is of course different. From friends' stories or porn movies, sex seems easy enough. However, have you been sure about how to have sex the first time? If not, see the following full guide before staying first.
The first way to have sex
There are various ways to have sex that you can try. But for starters, you and your partner can warm up (foreplay) by way of making out, caressing each other, touching, kissing, and stimulating each other's sexual organs.
If this is an intimate relationship for the first time, you might want to start with the most common sex positions, namely missionaries. This position is done by the way women lie under men. In order to be able to penetrate, a woman needs to bend and widen her legs so that a man's body is between a woman's left and right legs. Then, slowly insert the erect penis into the wet vaginal opening. To find the location, try to explore the vagina before penetration.
Penetration should not hurt. If it hurts, stop for a moment. You can try again more gently or extend the warm-up session until you're both quite excited. When penetration is done and you both feel comfortable, move your hips until you find the most appropriate and enjoyable rhythm.
What should be prepared?
If you don't want to get pregnant, use a condom as a contraceptive. Condoms should be installed after the erect penis, before penetration. This contraceptive is also useful for preventing transmission of venereal disease.
You and your partner must also prepare mentally before having sex. If you are not sure about your partner or timings, do not push yourself. Because, sex with a relaxed feeling will help you both reach the peak of pleasure.
What can I expect from first time sex?
The first time sex might feel awkward or tense. This is normal. You just need to get used to it. Also note that sex does not always end in orgasm, so there's no need to worry if it doesn't reach a climax.
The purpose of having sex is not just to get orgasm or sexual satisfaction alone. Sex is also done to get to know your own body and partner. However, it is easy to expect too high for the first time. This is because pornographic media (films, videos, comics, etc.) often describe sex dramatically and excessively. In fact, sex is a process that needs to be trained. Try to continue to learn various ways of having sex that are most suitable for you and your partner.
Will the vagina bleed?
Keep in mind, the hymen of a woman does not always tear or bleed on the first night. This does not indicate whether your partner is a virgin or not. Because the hymen can tear at any time without having sex. Many women also have a strong and thick hymen, so that penetration of the penis does not cause any damage or tears.
