Contents:
- Medical Video: TRAVEL TIPS: 16 Tips for Surviving Long Flights (While Pregnant)
- Husbands don't need to know everything
- Avoid the topic of babies while having sex
- Be creative!
- Don't forget the activity outside the bed
- Do not forget foreplay
Medical Video: TRAVEL TIPS: 16 Tips for Surviving Long Flights (While Pregnant)
Sometimes, when you try to get pregnant, sexual intercourse feels like a hard task that is no longer fun because you only care about the end result, not the process. Sexual intercourse at this time usually depends on when you ovulate and when you do not ovulate, or when you may or may not have sexual relations. Sometimes you may have sex too often, not because you want to, but because you are advised by a doctor. Therefore, it is not easy to keep romance and make sex fun when you and your husband try to have children.
The following are some suggestions for keeping sex fun and romantic.
Husbands don't need to know everything
Record the day of ovulation, the date of fertility, and others usually are a matter of women because we are the ones who know when this happened. However, if you tell all your things to your partner, having sex only on even or odd days, or if you tell your husband that you MUST have sex tonight too because you are ovulating, this can actually kill romance.
You or your husband may even feel stressed if you discuss fertility topics and techniques for pregnancy too often, so be sure to discuss the topic at another time when you and your partner are not in bed. As long as you and your husband both have the goal of having a baby and trying to get pregnant, you don't need to bring it up continuously before sex.
Next time you are ovulating, wear sexy clothes and make the atmosphere of the room romantic, so that sexual intercourse feels spontaneous and full of romance, not a necessity because it is in the program.
Avoid the topic of babies while having sex
"Babies", "pregnant", "ovulation", "fertile", or anything belonging to this category, should not be mentioned before and during sex, because this will make sex feel like "duty". Focus on yourself as a partner, and leave the conversation about pregnant techniques and fertility. By forgetting for a moment that you are trying hard to get pregnant, you can devote focus to your husband and enjoy the intimacy of just being alone without thinking about a baby.
Be creative!
Okay, if you want to have scheduled sexual intercourse according to the date of ovulation, you must try hard to make it fun. Whatever is right for you, can be a candle, wine, lingerie, a new position, a new place, change it and make your husband curious. Act as if you are a newlywed. Importantly, the goal is to have fun and relax a little.
Try not to limit sexual intercourse when "the day of ovulation" only. If you have a healthy sex life outside the fertile period, it will be easier for you to have a healthy sex life during your fertile period.
Don't forget the activity outside the bed
Many couples who try to have children are not really connected to each other outside the room, because their purpose is merely babies, ovulation, fertility, and others. Try to continue to be intimate with your partner even outside the bedroom. Go to dinner, watch or go to a favorite place. By ensuring your and your husband's communication and non-physical relationships are maintained, sexual relations will be more enjoyable.
Making love with your husband is also important because when you have children later, this relationship will change because you and your husband will focus on the baby.
Do not forget foreplay
Don't rush to the final destination. Begin sexual intercourse with massage and sensual touch to maintain closeness and bonding so that sexuality does not only aim to get pregnant. And don't forget the art of kissing! Little by little touch first can make your sexual relationship heat up.
