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Medical Video: Is Your Sexual Fantasy Normal? (SFW)
Have you watched the whole film from the novel Fifty Shade of Darker that airs on the big screen? One thing you might clearly remember when you hear the title of the film, which is BDSM sex, bondage, dicipline and sadomasochism. Many misunderstand that sex is an unhealthy stream, and the fall of abusive behavior in a sexual context. What are you curious about and what is normal BDSM? Come on, see the explanation below.
What is BDSM sex?
What exactly is meant by BDSM sex? Clearly, BDSM is sexual activity by playing a role, some take the dominant role (who is in control) and some take the role of submissive (obedient). This activity often also involves bondage (binding, for example with handcuffs) anddiscipline (in this case means punishment / discipline) in the form of even sadistic violence, in order to get the pleasure of being in pain during intercourse (sadomasochism).
BDSM sex is basically a foreplay tactic that many couples do out there to increase sexual pleasure.
Many people consider BDSM to be misguided, inhuman, or worse, sexual violence. But for some who do this, BDSM sex is felt lovingly, protecting each other, and is a form of "play" when having sex. Humans can basically have sex without conversation, negotiation, or without any emotional connection. But in BDSM sex, you might need a lash, feather or ice stone to create a game that does require intimate communication and clear rules of sex.
Basically, when "playing" BDSM sex, both must be equally happy or enjoying at least. So before having sex in this genre, there must be an agreement between dominant and submissive actors to agree with each other regarding what scenes, styles, or tools to use when having sex. Indeed, from the public depiction of a book film or media that displays BDSM images it seems sadistic and horrified.
What normal BDSM sex is done?
Many people when they hear the word BDSM consider it abnormal, mentally ill, to sexual deviation. But not all things about BDSM are always related to abnormalities. Maybe this is caused by the consumption of news, films and reports from the media that are not very accurate.
The research was conducted in the Netherlands by psychologist Dr. Andreas Wismeijer and Dr. Marcel van Assen from The Journal of Sexual Medicine in 2013 stating that BDSM sex was normal, provided both parties agreed and agreed to do so.
Well, the more "exciting" again, you must understand the procedures for doing BDSM sex. For sex lovers of this genre, it is important to understand the concepts of "Safe, Sane, and Consensual". Safemeaning safe, and all activities carried out must not endanger the woman.Sane aka "sane", where everything is done within reasonable limits. Andconsensual which means both parties must both agree and not be forced to engage in BDSM sex.
That is, during BDSM, you and your partner must have awareness and responsibility for their actions and roles. At a dangerous level, it is not uncommon for many people to lose control for the satisfaction of their hard-line sex desires.
One more thing, during sex, do not hesitate to say no, and in the BDSM game rules there are usually separate keywords. This keyword functions as a control tool when the game is done too far. Just in case, who knows the position or style of sex being played turns into torture, not pleasure anymore.
