Contents:
- Medical Video: STUNG by a TARANTULA HAWK!
- Why are there people who like to bite when making love?
- It's too hard to risk infection
- Before bite, permission first
Medical Video: STUNG by a TARANTULA HAWK!
Everyone has their own way to express the pleasure of making love. One that may be often done by many people is biting and picking up partners. Even though you can add heat to your bedtime session, it turns out that picking or biting during lovemaking is also not allowed to be careless, you know!
Why are there people who like to bite when making love?
For some people, biting a partner's body is their way toexpressing sexual passion and satisfaction, arousal reaction when approaching climax,or even as a mainstay technique for arousing sexual arousal partners.There is nothing wrong with this. Some people may even enjoy the sensation of pain felt when bitten.
However, there is one thing that you must consider before carelessly biting your partner on the bed, even if it's just a fad.
It's too hard to risk infection
According to NCBI (National Institutes of Health), human bites can risk causing infectious wounds in the bite area and becoming a gateway for various parasites that cause disease. This risk can increase especially if you are fond of biting in sensitive areas with thin skin, such as groin, penis, nipples, ears and neck.
Before bite, permission first
Biting while making love can be a way to heat up your intimate and partner sessions. Even so, Jane Greer, PH.D, a sex therapist and marriage counselor, said that viewed from a psychological perspective, biting during sex can be interpreted as aggressive and dominating behavior. If you immediately bite without permission from your partner, especially loudly, it is not impossible that a naughty bite tempts you to be misunderstood as "playing rough" and ultimately damaging sex. Moreover, not everyone really likes to be bitten or doesn't want to leave a mark.
If biting during lovemaking is one of your fetishes or sexual fantasies, you should let your partner know. Especially if during this time you both have never done it, both during foreplay though. It does not need to be discussed from a long time ago, just tell your partner when in action and the desire to bite appears. For example, "Can you bite or not?", Or "Is this ok?" While giving a gesture of smacking.
If you feel awkward to say it, you can start slowly, from light suction and light bite, then check your partner's expression. If he shows signs of anxiety or discomfort, stop and replace another maneuver. If he does not object and asks you to continue, then continue your mainstay technique. Furthermore, you can also explore further with different bite intensities and vary the "target" area of the bite to increase the partner's passion (Psstt ... Look here what are the most sensitive areas in a woman's and men's body that can be stimulated through bites!)