Contents:
- Medical Video: 7 Ways to Bring The Spark Back In A Relationship
- Women are more likely to lose sexual desire if they have long been married
- Communication in sex is the key to keep sexual desire burning
Medical Video: 7 Ways to Bring The Spark Back In A Relationship
The first night Your marriage will certainly be different from the tenth thousand or fifteen thousand marriages. Sex doesn't feel as hot and unpleasant as it once was. Either you sometimes feel bored or couples who sometimes don't fit when you're "asking for rations". In fact, sex is an important factor in your relationship. Did you know that what you and your partner really need is only communication in sex? At least as the research says below.
Women are more likely to lose sexual desire if they have long been married
A study published in the BMJ Open and reported from Medical News Today found that women who had lived in a household were twice as likely to lose sexual desire compared to men.
Although women tend to lose sex more easily than men, talking about sex with a partner can help overcome this problem. So according to research conducted by Prof. Cynthia Graham from the Center for Sexual Health Research, University of Southampton, UK.
Prof. Graham and other researchers used a survey from the National Survey of Sexual Attitudes and Lifestyles to see how women and men could lose sexual desire, including seeing psychological factors that cause this.
The study involved 4,839 men and 6,669 women aged 16 to 74 who had lived with their partners for at least one year. During that period, more than 34 percent of women and 15 percent of men claimed that they were less interested in sex.
The survey also revealed that more than 60 percent of women and 50 percent of men interviewed felt depressed by their diminishing sexual arousal. Some of the factors that cause this are mental health and physical condition that worsens, does not feel emotionally close during sex with a partner, has children under five years old, gives birth, and communicates less with partners about sex.
Communication in sex is the key to keep sexual desire burning
Increase sexual desire not as complicated as you think, no need to eat a romantic dinner at an expensive restaurant or consult a sex health expert. In this study, it was found that couples who often talked about sex were better able to maintain intimacy. Communication in sex is considered very important so that your sex drive and partner stay warm.
According to Prof. Graham, for women the quality, length of relationship with a partner, and communication in sex are important factors in maintaining their sexual desire. A study published on Journal of Personality and Social Psychology mentions that hard work and communication in sex is the key to feeling good sex, even though someone has long married a partner.
Jessica Maxwell, Ph.D. as researchers say that there are people who believe in 'sexual destiny'. That is, sexual compatibility just happens so that if sexual desire goes out, the relationship can end.There are also those who believe in 'sexual maturity'. That is, sex is a thing that must be fought for and studied together in a relationship.
In three studies, Jessica and her team asked men and women about their expectations about sex. This study also analyzed the sex lives of the participants.As a result, people who believe in 'sexual maturity' have a stronger bond than those who believe in 'sexual destiny'. The reason, they want to try and communicate in sex with their partners so that the love session does not feel bland anymore.
