Contents:
- Medical Video: First Night Tips || Wedding Series || December Daily Dose || DDD Day 3
- What should the newlyweds prepare before making the first night?
- Preparation of the first night a woman must do
- 6. Prepare lubricants just in case
- Preparation of the first night a man must do
- Then, how to have intercourse on the first night?
- Start with foreplay
- After that, slowly start doing penetration of the penis into the vagina
- After successful sex, don't forget these 3 important things
- 1. Drink water
- 2. Clean the genitals
- 3. Must urinate
Medical Video: First Night Tips || Wedding Series || December Daily Dose || DDD Day 3
The first night is a sacred night for newlyweds after giving the promise of the holy life as lively as possible. This thrilling night is also synonymous with the intimate relationship activity that many newlyweds have been waiting for. Various facts and myths from the night of the dream of all the brides often milling about in the ears of the couples, making them wait to prove their own truth.
For the sake of achieving this memorable night's success, what should the newlyweds prepare? Then, how do you have sex with your partner for the first time?
Now, to answer any worries ahead of the battle of love, it's a good idea to look at things that must be known before, for a moment, and after the first night takes place. Come on, see the explanation below.
What should the newlyweds prepare before making the first night?
Preparation of the first night a woman must do
For newlyweds, besides preparing mentally to get married, the preparation of the first night cannot be forgotten. This preparation cannot be done in a short time, try to prepare yourself from far before the wedding takes place.
For complete preparation steps, see the tips below.
1. Perform self-care as early as possible
Towards the wedding day and the first night, it's a good idea to take the time to a salon or other beauty place that provides a package of premarital care from head to toe.
Take care of yourself before marriage, like doing waxingand scrubs amake your body and feminine area clean, fragrant, and look more attractive. This will also arouse your confidence when facing the first night.
2. Settings the room or bed the first night is as romantic as possible
After preparing yourself for a thrilling night later, now is the time for you to organize and prepare your place of engagement and your partner. Yes, the bridal room is one of the important things that must be prepared for intimate relationships the first night.
Make the atmosphere of the room that will be used to spend the first night. Preparing for this romantic atmosphere, useful for raising the mood of you and your partner to make love. The atmosphere can also make the body more relaxed.
To create a romantic atmosphere, you can add roses and aromatherapy around the bed. You can also install pink, blue or white sheets. The neutral colors are used so that later, you and your partner will be more comfortable without reducing the romantic impression of doing the "battle" the first night of the newlywed.
3. Wear sexy clothes that are tempting but not tacky
Ahead of the moment of intimate relationship the first night, of course it will be more tempting when you wear lingerie or other clothes that make you feel sexy. This sexy impression is important, so that men's passion is awakened. Sexy impression will also support the running of foreplay to penetration that will come.
But remember, don't use lingerie or underwear that is too complicated, for example, many bond ornaments use a rope, so that later it will be difficult to strip your clothes. It is feared that this can reduce your romanticism with your partner. In essence, use clothes that are simple but tempting, and don't forget to show your confidence when giving up your body to your partner.
4. Know the ins and outs of your own body
Besides doing the three tips above, the most important thing is that women need to know all about their own bodies. Explore yourself as far as possible, know a certain spot on your body that is indeed a point of your pleasure.
Why do you need to know the ins and outs of yourself? Because, during intercourse the first night, stimulation is one of the important things to go to the stage of penetration between the penis and vagina. If you don't know the points of stimulation, there is only pain without pleasure. This needs to be known in order to support the satisfaction of making love together.
5. Avoid excessive makeup
When you have intercourse, avoid using menor and striking makeup. It's natural and normal if you want to look beautiful that night, but the beauty that men want is not beautiful full make-up. Therefore, on the first night, most men want to see the integrity of his wife in a natural appearance.
But besides the reasons above, excessive use of makeup on the first night will also be troublesome.Imagine if you use total makeup, your mascara or lipstick leaves traces or sticks to other parts of your body, you must be busy cleaning the affected part rather than continuing to reach the peak of love, right?
Therefore, makeup that is simple and natural is more suitable to use, after all, the man you are about to fuck does not satisfy his eyes, but is more concerned with the satisfaction and happiness of both of you.
6. Prepare lubricants just in case
Not all processes of intimate relationships the first night went smoothly and was free of obstacles. For women, getting sick when penetrating is one of the common things that will definitely occur on the first night. Tension and stress during the first night can make the vagina hurt. This happens because your body is tense, does not relax, so vaginal fluid is reluctant to come out.
Vaginal fluid is important for the smooth penetration of the couple's penis into your vagina. Then, what's the solution? There is no harm in wearing sex lubricant on the first night you and your partner make love. We recommend that you choose water based lubricants. If you don't want lubricants to be a choice, the other solution is to do foreplay for as long as you need, so that the vagina has enough fluid, and you must be very aroused.
Preparation of the first night a man must do
Because this is an important night for the newlyweds, each individual must prepare the same thing. No exception with women, the newlywed man must prepare some preparations for the first wedding and night. What are some things that must be prepared?
1. Take care of your body's health first
For men, it's mandatory if you give the best performance to a female partner during the first night. You can give it all through nutritious food intake and a healthy lifestyle before marriage.
By eating healthy food, you also provide good body intake to be healthy and fit when the first night. Provides good nutrition to the body, as Debbie Mandel author of the book said Addicted To Stress, will nourish the body, especially your libido and cardiovascular system.
2. Also pay attention to personal hygiene in advance
Don't just expect women to go to the salon and take care of themselves before the D day, if men don't want to do it themselves. Men who are usually indifferent about cleanliness, are also required to apply personal hygiene before marriage.
In essence, you have to clean yourself. It's not fair, the previous woman struggled to give her the best appearance on the first night, while your body was "rough" only? If necessary, you do scrubs or premarital care at a salon to cleanse your body, or evenwaxing feathers that interfere in some parts of the body.
3. Exercise to increase stamina on D-day
Usually, who will break through the "defense gate" of your opponent in sexual relations is you. You also have to try more at the starting position, the rest after succeeding, will be your business and your partner.
So, your waist and pelvic strength must be trained. Do mild exercise or notr stamina awake like jogging, cycling, or swimming. Just light exercise, because if it's too heavy it's feared your stamina will be drained when the first night.
4. Take care and clean the virility area
Unlike the self-cleaning points above. Basically the penis needs special care so that it can be enjoyed comfortably. First, remove the hair off side which disturbs the appearance of the male. You certainly don't want your partner to feel disgusted or even reluctant to touch your penis.
You can also discuss with your partner what appearance your partner wants for the male. Shave with manual shaving, avoid electric shaving because your genital area has thinner and more prone skin that is injured.
5. Don't be affected by the film
This must be considered. Lower your expectations to be more realistic. The intended expectation is the hope that the first night will run smoothly as in the films.
Maybe you hope penetration of your penis with the vagina the couple will enter smoothly when they first enter. This can happen but very rarely because in reality you have to try it several times to get the right position and feeling comfortable.
6. Orgasm and satisfaction are not the main goals of the first night
Usually many people interpret the purpose of the first night as the time to reach the top pleasure of orgasm and pleasure in having sex. This is not entirely true, healthy and ideal sexual activity should have a good psychological impact on the couple.
The impact is to achieve an inner bond, a sense of love and affection between two human beings, mutual respect and respect for couples and as a sign that the couple belong to each other both spiritually and physically. About the orgasm on the first night, it was just an added value for those who managed to do it.
Then, how to have intercourse on the first night?
Start with foreplay
Sex is basically an intimate activity. Therefore, try not to hurry when you want to have sex. Approach while doing foreplay aka warming up, is the best way to intimacy by enjoying the beauty of each other's bodies. Don't forget, too, make sure you are both relaxed and relaxed.
This heating can be done by caressing, touching, or kissing. Most women like to kiss and or be kissed passionately so that later you can make both of you sink into the mood of making love. Kissing also triggers inner attachment and a sense of security between two emotions, which can help someone perform better in bed.
For the hot kissing technique, use a gentle caress of your tongue to tease his lips and take turns gently kissing techniques by gently pulling or sucking on his lips. Spend at least 15 minutes kissing before moving on to the next phase.
If a woman is not sexually aroused enough, her vagina will not be sufficiently lubricated and will be difficult and / or painful when the penis enters. Foreplay can also be achieved through oral sex, such as blowjob or clitoral stimulation using the tongue.
After that, slowly start doing penetration of the penis into the vagina
After the desire and mood are present, it's time for you to start trying to penetrate. Generally the most common sex is to involve the position of a woman lying flat on her back with her knees slightly bent (you can place a pillow under her hips) with the man lying or kneeling on it, referred to as the missionary position.
This position is probably the easiest to choose by the newlyweds. Even this applies if you have intercourse for the first time. Once you know each other's bodies better you can try a different position next time.
When trying to insert the penis into the vaginal opening, it is only natural for a man to get lost and eventually enter a hole, especially if this is his first experience. The penis that is about to enter or is misdirected, in fact can be painful for women.
Don't forget also to make sure the penis is a maximum erection and you are both excited. Therefore, the best way to find a vagina without embarrassing incidents is to ask for a guide.
A woman's partner will usually need (in all sex, not just the first time) to use her hand to separate the inner labia or lips, and use her other hand to guide the penis in properly. Sometimes it takes a little longer to find it, but this is natural especially when both of you are just getting used to each other's bodies.
Once the penis is successful, the man can continue penetration. Generally, men move in by pushing the penis in a slow and rhythmic motion so that the penis enters completely into the vagina, and pulls out partially before re-entering.
Swaying with all your body strength will not be effective; instead push the penis from the hip. After a while you might find certain movements, positions and touches that make you both feel more comfortable. The point is, start with slow and gentle movements, not hit hard without stopping like a porn movie.
After successful sex, don't forget these 3 important things
1. Drink water
After having sex, the body of the new bride will usually lose a lot of fluid coming out through sweat. In addition, your throat may feel dry after making love. Especially if during sex you breathe through your open mouth.
So, always provide a glass of water on the side of the bed or wherever you usually have sex. Water can also help blood circulation. This is good for preventing cramps or tingling after sex.
2. Clean the genitals
Do not go straight to sleep after sex, yes. Unfortunately, the newlyweds who have combined their love mostly experience intense fatigue, which is also a combination of enthusiasm and sexual activity itself.
But, you should wash and clean your sex organs first. If there is no time to take a bath at the same time, you simply wash the penis or vagina with clean water. Cleaning the penis and vagina after intercourse is useful for preventing bacterial or yeast infections.
Because, when making love the penis and vagina may be exposed to various types of germs, bacteria, and dirt from various things. For example, hands, lubricants, sex toys, and mouth.
However, don't use it antibacterial soap to clean the vagina. The chemicals from these cleansers will actually disrupt the balance of the pH level in your intimate area. This risks causing infection or irritation.
3. Must urinate
Urination after having sex is obligatory to do, especially for women. Urination after sex is important to prevent urinary tract infection.
When having sex, the vaginal mouth may be exposed to bacteria from the anus, hands, or other things. If it is not immediately cleaned, the bacteria can move to the urethra (urethra) through the urinary hole which is located adjacent to the vaginal opening. Well, urinating will wash these bacteria out of the urinary hole.
Well, after listening to the guidelines for intimate relationships for the newlyweds, don't forget to also keep your health and stay away from stress so that you and your partner can be in prime condition on the first night. Good luck!
