Contents:
- Medical Video: Stay in - or Leave - a Relationship?
- Having a fight with a boyfriend, must break up or survive?
- 1. Have strong and real reasons for breaking ties
- 2. Hope the couple always knows what you want
- 3. Be alone first, then think again about what should be done
Medical Video: Stay in - or Leave - a Relationship?
Fighting with a boyfriend or partner is normal. Usually, this is caused by differences of opinion from both. However, for those of you who have just experienced a pretty big fight like third world war, surely this will make you think.
Yes, think whether the partner who is with you right now is the right person for you or not. Finally, you begin to worry about whether to continue the relationship or end it. For those of you who are in this period, you can do and consider the following. These are things that you can consider, whether your relationship can continue or not.
Having a fight with a boyfriend, must break up or survive?
From several surveys that have been carried out, there are as many as 70% of people who have thought of deciding their partners after having a fight. However, breaking up is not that easy to do.
The fact of the majority of those who have thought of breaking up with their partners, actually feel more afraid if they are alone and have to let go of their partners. Then, do you have to break up or survive after a fight, even a great fight? Check out some of the things you should consider before making a decision after a fight with a boyfriend or partner.
1. Have strong and real reasons for breaking ties
Many people who experience problems and want to break up from their partners, actually do not have a reason that is strong enough to separate. Yes, most of it is done on the basis of the emotions and egos that each has. You must find a reason that is real and strong enough if you want to leave your relationship without regret later on.
There are several strong reasons that you can make the basis of decisions, for example, couples having an affair, often lying, often physical abuse on you, having an addiction to something and not being able to control it, or even a couple who don't want children while you want it.
If indeed you have one of these reasons, then you can consider ending your current relationship. However, if you just want to break up and be unreasonable, then your relationship is actually still fine and all you need to do is communicate with your partner. If necessary, give space so that you and your partner can do self-introspection.
2. Hope the couple always knows what you want
Many couples decide to separate because they think their partners don't understand themselves. In fact, maybe you yourself are not open enough about your feelings and thoughts on your partner. You just hope and demand that your partner can understand you without being told.
If your argument arises because you feel your partner doesn't understand you - even though you don't say it yourself - then try to be more open to your partner. Remember, relationships with lovers can only work well when both are equally open, rather than assuming each other and harboring expectations.
3. Be alone first, then think again about what should be done
Yes, as mentioned before. If you have argued too much or quarreled with your boyfriend, it's good to make room for each to cool your mind and calm down. This is needed by each couple, so they can think better and not be carried away by emotion.
If indeed after you calm down and then, still feel that you also do the wrong thing - not just your partner - then it might be better to fix it first rather than break the relationship. Communicate what you feel and regret that you feel when undergoing self-introspection, then solve the problem with a cold head with your partner.
Moreover, if you are calming yourself down and then feeling missed with your partner, then of course you can maintain this relationship. Again, communication is the key to a healthy relationship.
