Contents:
- Medical Video: How Men Vs Women Like To Have Sex
- Is it true that only women who need foreplay?
- Secretly, men also want foreplay, you know!
- Tips and tricks for fun foreplay for men
- 1. Kiss and bite the whole body
- 2. Realize your fantasy
- 3. Massage her body
Medical Video: How Men Vs Women Like To Have Sex
Foreplay is known as a warm up or an opening action that can arouse passion and make you aroused to the fullest. Well, there is a false assumption that only women who need foreplay before sex because men heat faster than women. In fact, not only women like the warming activity in this bed. Men also secretly like, you know, do foreplay.
Is it true that only women who need foreplay?
No, this assumption is actually outdated and wrong. A mental health specialist and author of a book from the United States, Dr. Mark Epstein, explained that during this time actually men also wanted foreplay, but they were hit by fear.
What are you afraid of? Apparently the men are afraid that they spend time on foreplay, when it's time to penetrate, they will lose their erection so the penis softens again. Many also fear that foreplay will trigger premature ejaculation.
Because of this fear, many men tend to hurry and go straight into the main menu, which is sexual penetration (the penis enters the vagina). However, that does not mean men do not want and need to warm up before entering the main banquet.
Secretly, men also want foreplay, you know!
Searched from Psychology Today, researchers from Canada conducted a survey of 152 couples about how much time they spent warming up in bed, and how long they would ideally want to do it. This is the result:
- Women say they want an average of 19 minutes to heat themselves in bed. Unfortunately, in reality this warm up only lasts about 11 minutes. The women also said that they wanted an intimate relationship for 14 minutes. However, they only spend seven minutes having sex aka half their true expectations.
- Men say that they want an average of 18 minutes to warm up in bed. Meanwhile, in reality they only do foreplay within 11 minutes. Then, men want 19 minutes to have sex. Again, in fact they only make love about 5 to 6 minutes.
It can be concluded that both women and men both share a long enough foreplay, which is almost 20 minutes. Therefore, for men - don't be afraid to enjoy an appetizer first before tasting the main menu, which is penetration. Women are also strongly advised to "heat up" their partners before sex.
Tips and tricks for fun foreplay for men
1. Kiss and bite the whole body
To satisfy a man's desire to warm up in bed, you have to know what men want. One of them is a gentle bite all over the body. Women can start biting their lips, touching their ears softly, and kissing the back of their neck. Bite and kiss all over his body gently while gently pointing to the lower body part, the penis.
2. Realize your fantasy
If you have certain sexual fantasies, foreplay is the right time to make it happen. For example, you fantasize about having sex in public places like on a plane. You can ask your partner to dress like a sexy flight attendant. Enjoy your fantasy first, for example by exploring the couple's body with sexy costumes, or ask your partner to practice safety guidelines that are usually exhibited by flight attendants before the plane takes off.
3. Massage her body
Massage is indeed powerful enough to make sexual desire rise, especially for men. Women can tempt their partner by gently massaging their body parts such as their back and chest. Only then explore the lower body. Starting from the legs, thighs, inner thighs, and finally to the penis.
