Contents:
- Medical Video: Is Your Sexual Fantasy Normal? (SFW)
- What is fetish?
- Is having a fetish normal?
- What is a normal sex fantasy like?
Medical Video: Is Your Sexual Fantasy Normal? (SFW)
Have you ever heard the term fetish? Some consider fetish to be a psychological disorder of someone related to their sexual desire that is not normal. However, there are also those who consider this normal as long as your sex partner can be invited to collaborate on the bed and not hurt the partner.
If you are more excited when you see women using high heels or excited when they see one part of your partner's body, maybe you have a fetish. It's normal if you have a naughty fantasy about sex. However, what is actually a fetish? Is the fetish the same or different from sex fantasy? What is a normal and abnormal sex fantasy. We will find out in this article.
What is fetish?
Fetish is a condition in which a person tends to do certain specific things, to fulfill their desire to make love and achieve satisfaction. Certain things done in fetishes vary, from the normal to the most bizarre and unthinkable to the average person.
Fetish can be in the form of actions or certain items that make someone excited, and often do that person every time making love with a partner. For example, some men may be more excited to see their wives wearing high heels while making love, while some are more satisfied to see their partners wear lingerie than ordinary nightgowns. Another thing that is also considered a fetish is one of them is aroused by licking on the legs.
Is having a fetish normal?
Although no single study has found the reason a person can have a fetish, some psychologists believe the disorder arises from sexual attraction that is vented on certain unusual objects.
According to Scot Jacobey, an expert in the field of sex therapy, said that fetish is part of sex fantasy. Normal or abnormal depending on someone's fantasy of a partner or an object that makes him excited. Fetish can also be categorized as normal sexual behavior, except that someone who has a fetish will have a passion for non-sexual objects or something that arouses passion.
Fetish itself according to Jacobey can be said to be normal or not depending on the intensity and level. You can easily recognize it. And most importantly if your partner doesn't mind, this is certainly not a problem.
What is a normal sex fantasy like?
You must have had sex fantasies and felt weird. But calm, there are also many people out there who have sex fantasies with you. Then how can we distinguish between normal and fantasy sex fantasies?
Actually this is easy. When you and your partner feel comfortable and the most important thing is not to hurt, then you still have a normal sex fantasy. As long as the couple still wants to do it without coercion, this is normal, including if you have a fetish of certain things.
A research conducted by the Kinsey Institute, in the United States, which is the first institution that examines sexual behavior, suggests that sexual fantasizing, whatever it is, is not an indication that someone is abnormal or betrays his partner.
The research has also proven that 84% of men and 67% of women have sexual fantasies. Fantasy is a mental experience that arises from imagination or it can also be stimulated by reading, painting, photographs and others. Generally people fantasize when having sexual relations with a partner, when masturbating, or even when they are not engaging in sexual activity.
