Contents:
- Medical Video: Men Fake Orgasms A Lot More Than You Think
- The cause of men pretending to be orgasms
- 1. For the sake of pleasing your partner
- 2. Over time waiting for the climax
- 3. Hiding premature ejaculation
- 4. In order to look great in the eyes of the couple
- If this happens, what should be done?
Medical Video: Men Fake Orgasms A Lot More Than You Think
Climax aka orgasm can be said to be the peak of sexual pleasure. Unfortunately, a study published in the Archives of Sexual Behavior in 2011 reported that as many as 80 percent of women prefer to fake orgasms.
Although more is known to occur in women, it does not rule out this possibility can also be done by men. Yes, it turns out men also often fake orgasms when having sex. So what is the reason?
The cause of men pretending to be orgasms
During this time, maybe women who are known more often pretend orgasm. However, this statement changed after new research emerged from the Sexual and Relationship Therapy Journal. The study found that about 50 percent of 458 men claimed to have pretended to orgasm at least once in the past 4 months.
This is usually done because it is stressful, tired, sometimes even if you do not want to make love, but are reluctant to reject the invitation. In addition, there are still other causes that make men prefer to fake orgasms, namely:
1. For the sake of pleasing your partner
Indeed pretending orgasm seems to be lying to a partner. This was explained by Dr. Abraham Morgentaler, FACS, a urology specialist lecturer from Harvard Medical School, in his book entitled Why Men Fake It. According to him, the reason men pretend orgasm is actually not much different from women.
In essence, men want to please their partners and prove their performance in bed. This statement was also approved by John Romaniello who was a book writer and expert fitness, that men only want to make their partners feel satisfied after making love.
2. Over time waiting for the climax
The time and ability of everyone, especially men, to achieve orgasm is certainly different. There are those who can do it in just minutes from the start of penetration, not even a few that take a long time to reach orgasm.
Well, this time of orgasm is too long which is sometimes one reason men pretend to have reached orgasm, even though they haven't.
On average, data shows that men tend to need about seven minutes from penetration to climax. If a man feels he has been aroused for a long time but does not come to a climax, he may choose to fake orgasm.
3. Hiding premature ejaculation
The opposite of too long an orgasm, in some cases, fake orgasms done by men aim to hide premature ejaculation. This was explained by Dr. Craig Niederberger, FACS, head of the urology department of the University of Illinois Chicago.
Premature ejaculation is ejaculation that occurs faster than desires, or in other words a man's body cannot control his own ejaculation. Yes, this might be done to stimulate male sex drive and you as a partner to increase.
4. In order to look great in the eyes of the couple
For some men, maintaining self-esteem is important, not least when they are in bed. This is what makes many men who experience sexual disorders, such as premature ejaculation or difficult to reach the original orgasm, preferring to pretend to have reached the peak of sexual pleasure.
Not without reason, a man may not want to be underestimated by a partner, or for him to be easier to fake orgasm than having to explain to the partner what is really felt.
If this happens, what should be done?
Occasionally pretending orgasm may not be a big deal. However, if you do it too often, it never hurts to discuss this condition with a doctor. You may experience sexual disorders and need proper care to restore them.
Other choices fall on sex therapists. Because, sometimes fake orgasms are often associated with emotional problems that are buried themselves and difficult to express. Therefore, the role of a sex therapist may be able to help overcome sexual problems that you experience.
