Contents:
- Medical Video: 5 More Oral Sex Mistakes Most Women Make - Give MUCH Better Blowjobs
- The way oral sex is wrong, but often done by women
- 1. Embarrassed to start first
- 2. Does not provide direction
- 3. Biting
- 4. There is no variation
- 5. Only focus on one area
- 6. Too rushed
- 7. You don't enjoy it
Medical Video: 5 More Oral Sex Mistakes Most Women Make - Give MUCH Better Blowjobs
If you are bored with that-that's all, you can make oral sex an alternative to intimate flirting with your partner. At first glance, the oral sex method seems easy - suck the penis in the mouth and play the tongue. Eits, wait a minute. Unexpectedly, there were a number of mistakes that women might make during oral sex, especially for the first time. Not only will this make you both uncomfortable, but also makes your new experience not as sweet as imagined.
The way oral sex is wrong, but often done by women
1. Embarrassed to start first
Many women are embarrassed to start sex for fear of being considered aggressive by their partners. Yet the reality is not like that. Being reluctant to take the initiative can actually prevent men from getting satisfaction.
If this is your first time, it's good to talk to your partner first if you want to try it. After that, don't hesitate to start teasing it first. He might even feel challenged when you move first.
2. Does not provide direction
Vice versa. If this is your turn to accept oral-vaginal sex from a partner, try to open up what you want and don't want from the technique he plays.
Don't even assume that a man can read your mind without you notifying. Men are not psychics and they also need direction from you. However, directing is not compelling, you know!
By knowing what to do and what kind of maneuver can bring you to the seventh sky, he will feel more confident and you can reach the climax that you have been wanting.
3. Biting
Even though some men like bite sensations, you should consider twice before doing it. Because the genital area is a very sensitive organ. If you are not careful, you can hurt the penis and pose a risk of infection.
That is why, both men and women, never bite or use your teeth during oral sex unless your partner asks and likes it. To avoid excessive friction between the teeth and skin of the penis, try using lubricants when having oral sex.
4. There is no variation
Most oral sex methods only dwell on the same techniques and positions. Indeed, there is nothing wrong with that. However, to really bring your partner to a climax, you must be smart about trying different techniques and maneuvers, either with your mouth or your hands during oral sex. You can even combine both.
Not only that, changing your position during oral sex, whether lying down, sitting, standing or kneeling can create a new sensation that is more fun and exciting.
When you finally find out what your partner really likes, it doesn't matter to do it again and again onwards to spice up your sex stories.
5. Only focus on one area
You might think that licking or flicking, just the penis shaft will make him squirm great. In fact, the sensitive point of men is not only in one part. That is why, if you give oral sex to men, you have to be brave enough to explore.
Actually, the most sensitive part of the penis, at least on the circumcised penis, is the lower head of the penis where circumcision is used. You can put the tip into your mouth, then cool it for a while, remove it and put it in again. Not only that, you can also play on both testicles. For some men, stimulation in the testicles can trigger orgasm.
6. Too rushed
During oral sex, don't rush into your partner's penis. Start by kissing your partner from the lips and then move slowly to the base of the neck, back of the ears, shoulders and nipples which are very sensitive to relax. Then, slowly explore the abdomen to the groin area to the penis.
If this is your first experience, you should not immediately "devour" the penis directly into the throat. This will make you choke and may trigger a gag reflex. Pull back first with your partner to further build his passion. Give a break between "service" by moving to another area temporarily, then return to the business below.
7. You don't enjoy it
You might want to make your partner happy. However, if you don't like oral sex, then don't do it. As simple as that. Remember, you are not obliged to give oral sex. But if you do it, do it because you want it, not because you feel you have to do it.
