Contents:
- Medical Video: TELLING MY HUSBAND I'M PREGNANT (ended in miscarriage) 😢
- How do you tell friends and relatives if I have a miscarriage?
- First of all, you must make peace with yourself
- Notify directly and personally
- You can also present it with a short message
- Say it simply
- Prepare to get different comments and reactions
Medical Video: TELLING MY HUSBAND I'M PREGNANT (ended in miscarriage) 😢
Miscarriage is a sad thing and breaks the heart of all prospective parents, especially the mother. Naturally, if you feel sad and disappointed because of losing a prospective baby. Not only sad, you may also feel confused how to tell the incident to the people closest to you.
Yes, sharing news like this is certainly not easy, especially for those of you who are sad. However, you still have to share this incident with the people closest to you, because this will also help you through sadness. Then how do you tell the news of miscarriages to your family and closest relatives?
How do you tell friends and relatives if I have a miscarriage?
Actually there is no definite way of telling the news of miscarriages to your family and relatives. This depends on who you are talking to and the degree to which you feel comfortable with the method used. However, here are tips to make it easier for you to tell someone else about miscarriage news.
First of all, you must make peace with yourself
Before you tell others, you should make peace with yourself. Maybe you need a little time alone and regain your courage and strength. If you are really ready, you can start with the person closest to you.
Notify directly and personally
If you want to be given direct emotional support, you can start by saying this news to the person closest to you, for example your husband. Maybe at first you will be afraid to tell your husband because you don't want to upset him. However, rest assured that your husband can actually make you stronger and more comfortable in dealing with this condition.
The same thing you can do with other family members. Believe that they all can make you stronger.
You can also present it with a short message
If you are not comfortable telling your family or close relatives directly, you can use other methods, such as short messages or through chat. Write down what you think needs to be told and explain your current condition - whether you want to be alone first or be given direct emotional support.
Say it simply
You don't need to explain the cause of a miscarriage, if you don't want it. The thing your family needs to know at that time is your condition. You can reveal the cause if you are ready to tell the whole story. If they press you to tell the whole story, you can reject it by revealing that you are not comfortable telling the story.
Prepare to get different comments and reactions
After you have finished telling what happened, you will definitely expect the person you are telling to respond according to your wishes. But unfortunately, not everyone knows what you want, even they don't know what kind of response they should give.
Some of them might not give any response. This does not mean they do not care about you, only they never feel what you feel at the moment and finally confused what they should do.
While others may respond like "Everything will be fine" or "Just be patient, you will be pregnant again later". Maybe you will not like hearing sentences like that. However, they said that because they wanted to show their attention.
The rest, might give you advice and advice. If this happens to you, don't feel lectured or insecure, because maybe they already have experiences that you don't have. However, do not put all the things that other people say to your heart, choose which ones can make you calm and comfortable.
