Contents:
- Medical Video: 15 Signs of Fake Nice People Who You Need To Avoid
- Your characteristics are being used by others
- 1. Start a conversation only when you need something
- 2. Your existence is never considered
- 3. Do not prioritize yourself
Medical Video: 15 Signs of Fake Nice People Who You Need To Avoid
In circles of friendship and the environment wherever you are it is sometimes difficult to find sincere people. Tulus in the sense of being friends without any purpose or purpose other than because of the compatibility between each.
Because, among people who are truly sincere friends with you, there are some people who might use yourself for their own interests. Don't get stuck in a circle of people like this. Let's identify the characteristics when you are being used by others.
Your characteristics are being used by others
The following are various traits or signs that are a sign that you are being used by others.
1. Start a conversation only when you need something
Take note, how often are you given the opportunity to talk or are invited to chat casually by office colleagues or playmates? If it turns out the answer is almost never or very rarely, then you need to be alert.
If you realize that your friend turns out to only contact or talk to you only when he needs help, your sign is that you are not valued as a friend. It could even be, you are being used.
2. Your existence is never considered
Is your name always included in the plans made by your colleagues? Is your opinion always heard? If not, maybe they don't really care about you.
But in everyday life you are always the most troubled person and given great responsibility when others even just relax.
If you feel that your colleagues are being nice just because you need your energy or ideas, think again to stay in silence without acting.
3. Do not prioritize yourself
Quoted from the Huffington Post, people who are often used are people who always want to make others happy without thinking of themselves. Now you try to think, are you such a person?
For example, you are willing to pick up a friend on a hot afternoon even though you yourself are resting and your friend only calls when he needs help.
If so, the sign is that you are in an unhealthy relationship. Because, you are willing to prioritize other people that you even realize that he only contacted if you have trouble.
