Contents:
- Medical Video: 10 Signs Your Girlfriend Is TOO IMMATURE For You
- Signs of you dating an adult
- 1. Always you are dependable
- 2. You often nag
- 3. Avoid if guilty
- 4. Less romantic
- How to deal with couples who have childish qualities?
Medical Video: 10 Signs Your Girlfriend Is TOO IMMATURE For You
Age does not guarantee that someone has an adult or not. People who are immature and have childish traits usually cannot solve problems independently. Very unreliable, right? If you have a relationship with someone who is not mature like this, chances are that it will not last long.
Maybe you are a little aware that you have been in a relationship with someone who is not mature, but ignored it. To be more sure, refer to the following signs.
Signs of you dating an adult
1. Always you are dependable
People who have an adult nature will do everything independently. He will try hard not to bother others.
Well, different from those who are childish who usually need and rely on the help of others "especially the closest people" in doing something even though it is normal things.
If your partner can't get things done right. Then, always you are trying to solve it. Always you remind whatever it takes. This could be a consideration that your partner is an adult.
2. You often nag
An adult will think first about whatever is done. Moreover, this is related to your feelings. However, that does not guarantee if he is clear of mistakes.
But the consideration is how often your partner makes a mistake, makes you upset and disappointed. If you realize that your partner often makes you upset and disappointed so many times you have to remind him, it could be that your partner is not an adult.
3. Avoid if guilty
In addition, adults who will usually solve problems with a cold head, remain calm, and admit mistakes if indeed guilty. Different from childish people. They often make mistakes, but do not want to admit it and instead put it on others.
To find out whether your partner is a child or not, try to pay attention to how he responds when you remind him of the mistakes he has ever made.
If he doesn't take you seriously, he tends to respond with jokes, or turns to nag at you, maybe he doesn't want to be blamed or doesn't want to be responsible.
But remember, you also don't nag for things that are too trivial, huh.
4. Less romantic
An adult knows well how to treat a partner in an adult way. Surely he is able to build a romantic and comfortable atmosphere when together.
However, if your partner has a childish nature, he is more concerned with his own pleasure. This attitude makes you think that your partner is less romantic so you feel uncomfortable and pleasant when you are with him. In essence, you must obey what he wants.
How to deal with couples who have childish qualities?
After reading the previous explanation, try to think again about how you treat your partner. Does it really look like a girlfriend? Compared to boyfriends, the way you treat them is more like what a caregiver does.
If your partner does have such properties, you need special tricks to deal with it. Quoted from Very Well, a powerful way to deal with couples who are immature and have childish qualities is to change the way you treat them with the following steps:
- Talk to your partner about this first. Pay attention to whether there are changes afterwards or not.
- If it doesn't have an effect, don't let yourself criticize or correct if your partner makes a mistake. Let your partner face the consequences. This makes it more deterrent and more careful in carrying out an action.
- As much as possible reject when your partner relies on something to you even though it can be overcome by just one person. This teaches your partner to be independent and does not continue to rely on the hard work of others.
