Contents:
- Medical Video: 11 Secrets to Memorize Things Quicker Than Others
- Losses become naive and too innocent
- 1. Others consider you as a boring person
- 2. You are easily overlooked
- 3. You cannot be yourself
- 4. You are easily disappointed
Medical Video: 11 Secrets to Memorize Things Quicker Than Others
Since childhood, parents always educate us to be good people. There is nothing wrong with being a kind person. However, don't be a naive person who is too "innocent". This can actually be a host's weapon for you when interacting with other people in the midst of the hardness of the real world.
Losses become naive and too innocent
1. Others consider you as a boring person
Who doesn't like to be friends or have a relationship with a kind person? You also want to hang out with people who are also always nice to you.
But being a naive person who is too innocent, everything is all right nrimo and just give up, making other people look at you in the eye. You will be judged to be a very boring and predictable person.
2. You are easily overlooked
Being a good person does not mean your personality is weak. Good people can remain firm and determined. A person will be more likely to be appreciated if he can be assertive and be himself.
However, naive people who are too innocent usually can never refuse other people's requests; can't be angry to express yourself;do not have the heart to be outspoken (issue unegegration); salways succumb to others; and always attach importance to the needs of others than yourself.
These characteristics are often considered weak, thus opening opportunities for others tounderestimate and take advantage of your kindness for his personal benefit. Because, other people will be easier to guess your reaction if asked for help or when asking for something from you.
3. You cannot be yourself
When you are difficult to express yourself, this is the same as you not being yourself. Continuously long-held emotions can trigger depression to eat away at you.
On the other hand, an attitude that is too naive and innocentcan be caused by low self-confidence. This causes someone to be willing and ready to do anything for others to get approval and comfort.In fact, this is not a good way to get recognition of the surrounding environment for your existence.
4. You are easily disappointed
The habit of harboring emotions because it is often disappointed by the attitude of others canbackfire for you. Quite often you will be called a victim of feelings.Over time, fatigue and weakness because continuing to be disappointed can make your feelings and mentality become unstable, and can lead to depression.
