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Medical Video: 10 Unusual Couples In Odd Relationships
Not always rarely having sex indicates that there is a serious problem that lurks your household. Often, the lack of frequency of intercourse in the household is replaced by a strong sense of love and affection. Of course this is a good thing, and must be maintained.
But that doesn't mean you have to be satisfied with the famine season in your bedroom. Moreover, various studies report that married couples who at least have sex once a week show maximum maximum household satisfaction.
If both of you are less and less intimate, even hardly at all, there may be other factors playing.
Why do couples rarely have sex?
Here are five of the most common reasons that can kill husband and wife's passion for sex - and how to overcome them.
1. Too tired
Wake up, between school children, traffic jams, meeting here and there, going home, taking care of the house and children - just imagining it already makes you tired. And when it's time to sleep, sex is the last thing you think about (and want) right now.
Some of these physical and mental stressors can cause a decrease in hormonal responses that affect both of your sex drive. So that in the end, even the shadow of having sex can feel like a hard work. The solution? Try having sex in the morning, said Philip A. Rutter, PhD., A psychologist from Philadelphia, reported from Everyday Health. Psstt ... gargle first, huh!
2. Trapped routines
Naturally, it is only natural for you and your partner to experience boredom between each other, especially if you have already lived together together for years. If you no longer feel that he excites you like you used to, maybe this is because you are both stuck in that sex routine.
Change intimate habits that are stale and rekindle the passion of making love by considering doing new things, such as trying sex toys, roleplay BDSM or other sex fetishes, or just changing new positions.
3. Hypnotized sophisticated gadgets
Come on, tell me, who of you is constantly staring at the screen of your smart phone before going to sleep, whether it's to check your work email, check your soccer match score, or check the FB or Twitter timeline? If the technology colonizes the intimacy of your bedroom every night, this can lead to lovemaking sessions becoming increasingly rare.
Not only will it be difficult for one partner to start foreplay to get to the main event while the other is disturbed by the text of the boss or soap opera on TV, but technology also replaces intimate moments. If you want to continue making love, change the atmosphere of your bedroom for only two purposes - sleep and sex.
4. There are thorns in the household
Even small quarrels can remove the possibility of having sex. So, tell your partner about what is bothering you before being together tonight.
5. Chick about appearance
Over-relaxed appearance at home - just wearing negligee, shorts, messy hair - can threaten your sex life and your partner's. When women and men don't all out displaying the best version of himself, sex drive can go down. In fact, a recent survey found that half of the women let their feelings of inferiority about their weight and appearance continue to go to the bedroom, and some of them even chose to avoid having sex at all.
What can you do about this? If your partner feels down and look unhappy, give praise. For example, whisper to him what you think is the sexiest part of his body (even if it's just a mole on the cheek). If you are the recipient of praise, it's okay to occasionally allow yourself to be flooded with sweet words - and let it change your mindset in assessing yourself.
