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- How to invite and have safe oral sex with a partner
- How do you get your partner to want to have safe oral sex?
- 1. Try starting with questions
- 2. Invite your partner to test for joint venereal disease
- 3. Prevent together
- 4. Don't blame each other
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Each partner ideally has safe oral sex. This is so that venereal disease does not attack and hinder your sexual life. Then how do you get your partner to have oral sex safely, without making him offended or uncomfortable? Take a look at the tips here.
How to invite and have safe oral sex with a partner
The British Association for Sexual Health and HIV (BASHH) says that the rate of spread of sexually transmitted diseases such as genital herpes, chlamydia and gonorrhea spreads quickly through unsafe oral sex.
Dr. Peter Greenhouse, a sexual health consultant for the NHS in the United Kingdom also said that the spread of gonorrhea is increasing rapidly because the disease is resistant or immune to drugs. General medicines are now no longer effective in eradicating gonorrhea bacteria. These bacteria will remain in the throat and in the mouth because many couples do not have safe oral sex.
The fact is, not only genital herpes, gonorrhea, and syphilis are easy to spread through oral sex. Other venereal diseases such as HIV, hepatitis A, hepatitis B and hepatitis C, genital warts, and pubic lice can also be transmitted through oral sex.
How do you get your partner to want to have safe oral sex?
Safe oral sex can begin with a discussion and the right invitation with your partner. It's good to invite and prevent venereal disease through oral sex is done when you and your partner have started to be more intimate.
1. Try starting with questions
Before starting your hot session, make sure you are both honest and open about each other's sexual history. Ask important things like, "Have you been intimate before?".
Such questions can be an opening conversation that leads you to serious questions like, "Have you ever injected HPV or tested HIV yet?" If your partner seems offended or ashamed to answer, there's no need to be angry. Just explain slowly that this is important to know so that you can both enjoy hot oral sex without worrying about the risk of illness.
Some people may not be aware that they have symptoms of venereal disease. Because the symptoms of venereal disease are often overlooked and the virus can sit on your body for years without severe symptoms.
2. Invite your partner to test for joint venereal disease
Oral sex feels comfortable when done with a partner who is free from venereal disease. To get a sense of security, you and your partner can both do a venereal disease test. That way, you and your partner can get clear information about the condition of each body through the test results.
If your partner does not want to take a venereal disease test, please use a safety device that is safe to prevent transmission of venereal disease.
3. Prevent together
If you and your partner are declared clean of viruses or bacteria that cause venereal disease, start a discussion about how to prevent it. There are several steps you can take, such as injecting HPV (human papillomavirus) and use condoms for safe oral sex.
Use of condoms or latex mouth protectors (dental dam) strongly recommended during oral sex. Even though oral sex carries very little risk of HIV, you can still contract it if the person who receives oral sex has a venereal disease or has a wound in their genital area. Viruses and bacteria that cause venereal disease can also be obtained if sex is done with sores in the mouth or bleeding gums.
4. Don't blame each other
If later you or your partner has an illness, it's good not to blame each other. The reason is, most people do not know that they contract or transmit the disease to other people. You should focus on care, treatment, and lifestyle that can overcome venereal disease.